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Social work overview is crucial for adoption debate

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 Adoption has become a political hot topic. Many politicians and charitable organisations have had a say in the debate, but the views of social workers have been lacking. 

David Cameron stated that ‘the current [adoption] situation is not working’. Local authorities are currently required to place a child for adoption within 12 months of the adoption decision being made, but many children are not placed within this period.

This debate has often focused on the adopters, as opposed to the children. It has blamed social workers for long and intrusive assessments of prospective adopters without reflecting on how traumatising an adoption breakdown would be for a child already separated from their birth family. 

Thorough assessments are required as many of the children we work with have suffered horrendous abuse or neglect, or both, as well as separation. Out of the five children I received placement orders (permission to place for adoption) for in 2011, one had learning and physical disabilities, one was born withdrawing from heroin and one was very restless due to witnessing domestic violence. 

Having an overview of their whole life history, I had a good idea of the families these children require, but not all adopters are willing or able to provide what is necessary for each child. 

The most common problem I come across is that many people want to adopt a baby; however, many children placed for adoption are older. Of the five children I talked about above, four were aged between 2 and 6 years old and only one was a baby. The reason I was able to place a baby for adoption was because her parents absconded and have not been heard of since.

The Children Act 1989 requires social workers to evidence that they have tried to keep children within their families. This can frustrate social workers who feel that the courts focus on the rights of the birth parents over the timescales of the child. 

I recently attended court to finalise the adoption of a six year old following two years of care proceedings. One week prior to this, an uncle requested a halt to the adoption.  While I believed this child needed immediate legal permanence, the judge felt it necessary to delay the proceedings by two months on the grounds of fairness to the uncle. 

These are the delays that children often face but are rarely discussed politically. I would argue that this does not provide the public with an accurate overview of the complexities that social workers face when considering an adoptive family. 

Social workers and children need choice so that a family that best meets the child’s needs is found. I would urge more people to consider adoption as a service to children, not as a right of the adult.

Amy Norris, social worker for looked after children.

 

Posted by Guest Blogger at 01/23/2012 10:29:08 AM | 


Legal permanence may be one aspect, but if The Children Act requires evidence that the child is kept within their birth family, why is there so much hostility to such a request?
I frequently worked with family members who expressed great frustration and distress that their wishes and felings were not evidenced, being led to believe there was nothing that could be done, often until an eleventh hour instance, where they had chanced upon some independent legal advice and were finally able to access a fair hearing.Although, all too often, most didn't even get that far, and a loving home with a family member was denied to the children forever. Earlier intervention and fairer and more thorough family inclusion from the start of the proceedings may act as a preventative.
However, this is far from always the case.
Bridget Rose Gilbert,
Student Social Worker and previous Family Support/Supervised Contact Worker
Posted by: Bridget Rose Gilbert ( Email ) at 24/01/2012 11:09


Hi Bridget,

I agree that early intervention is key to supporting children within their families and often it does feel like children have to be removed from their parents because there is not the support to help those parents make the necessary changes. I've not felt hostility in my role towards keeping children within their families but I am often working with parents who have had numerous children and ongoing support but have found it difficult to change.

The frustration I spoke about with regards to a lack of adopters is similar to how I often feel about lack of resources in the early stages.

I don't think it is an either/or situation though. I would argue for more early intervention work as well as a different attitude to adoption by society. Hopefully this would mean that less children would need to be adopted, but those that had to be were matched to appropriate adopters.
Posted by: Amy Norris ( Email ) at 31/01/2012 17:51


Hi Amy - I really support your child focus and think the clue here is that family doesn't mean parents, who may never make the changes. The 'early stage resources' must include grandparents, aunts, sisters and brothers, who often feel powerless, excluded and terribly guilty - they are the ones that with the right supports (ie the ones in the statutory guidance to the Children Act issued in March last year) can often provide really excellent futures for children of all ages. The problem is, they often feel professional hostility to their requests. Why might that be?
Posted by: Julie Wilkes ( Email ) at 05/02/2012 15:16


What a bfituaeul post. Heading to read your links!Thank you for sharing your heart!Love & Blessings from Hong Kong,KimP.S. Please let your precious children know ... the prayers worked. We've got power in Lagonoy! Praise God!
Posted by: Melis ( Email ) at 17/02/2012 20:16


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